it is common for korean couples to dress the same as a way to show off their couple status: matching jackets, shoes, shirts, hats, you name it. newly married couples may even purchase pj sets to wear on their honeymoon and in their newlywed life. it’s something i love, and something i always strive for in our relationship. we always ask, “what’s the code?” meaning, “how are you going to dress?” and try to match where we can. we have purchased the same winter jackets, hiking boots and shoes wherever we could, and sometimes if there isn’t an equivalent male clothing option he’ll just buy up a size or two in the women’s option. so we can show that we are a couple. i love it.
the moment i started to like him 💜
how i pressured my husb into being my tutor back in 2011 after my previous tutor returned to korea. he really didn’t want to do it, but eventually he caved. i agreed to buy him lunch once a week in exchange for korean lessons. i’m not sure why i was so persistent, but i guess it ended up working out well for us in the end✨
i can’t really pinpoint when i stopped sleeping through the night but it’s been years. sometimes i sleep talk and sometimes i’ve found myself walking around the apartment awake enough to realize i’m moving but not fully awake enough to know why.
in addition, my temperature changes a few times throughout the night, so i often wake up wearing more or less clothing than i went to bed with. sometimes, apparently, my mister helps me along. i’m quite lucky to have found such a caring person.
jake and i met in college. i asked my friend to study together in the library one day, and she invited him to join us. my first impression of him was that he seemed nice but wasn’t quite my style. he wasn’t interested in me because i’m american. we started dating about eight months later.
i haven’t posted much since last year because a lot of things happened in november that just brought me down. one of those things was an abnormal lump i found in my breast. i drew this picture to help process some uncertain feelings i had while waiting to get the results of a needle biopsy. luckily, everything turned out fine but it was scary.
also the hospital garment reminded me of 한복 so that helped a little bit ♡
my husband goes by jake at work and with my grandfather, and i never really know what to call him when i’m talking about him because i just call him 여보 at home and i have mixed feelings about adopting english names but i’m just going to go with jake here. anyway we just passed our unofficial third anniversary…and things have just gotten better with time. more complicated and more challenging, but definitely better ♡
i got tired of not drawing pictures, so here’s the first of a new project to document my quiet life. i’ll try to post one new comic per week ♡