it is common for korean couples to dress the same as a way to show off their couple status: matching jackets, shoes, shirts, hats, you name it. newly married couples may even purchase pj sets to wear on their honeymoon and in their newlywed life. it’s something i love, and something i always strive for in our relationship. we always ask, “what’s the code?” meaning, “how are you going to dress?” and try to match where we can. we have purchased the same winter jackets, hiking boots and shoes wherever we could, and sometimes if there isn’t an equivalent male clothing option he’ll just buy up a size or two in the women’s option. so we can show that we are a couple. i love it.